Last night, Krissy, one of my friends and I went to a Pete Murray concert here in my hometown. To be honest, I more went for the opening act – Andrew Redford rather then Pete Murray but that’s neither here nor there.
From the start of Pete’s set, there was this group of 30something ladies standing in front of us – blonde, skinny ladies you’d expect to see them working in offices or out at a posh restaurant for a business lunch, those are the kind of women they were.
By about half way through his set, they were starting to get a bit sloshed and as they did so, their dancing got worse and worse.
Me, being my usual judgmental self, started to pay them out and mock them in my head. I’m not sure if I’m the only one who does this, but I am terrible for it. This went on for almost half an hour, as they got worse, my thoughts got even harsher.
That was until I realised how horrible my thoughts were, and I prayed. It was just a simple quick prayer.
“God, why do I judge these ladies? It’s not my place, please help me see them as you see them for we are all your children.”
I looked up after I thought that prayer, and the first girl I saw was one of the girls I’d focused my internal mocking on the most and I instantly knew her husband was an alcoholic, that he bashes her and that this is the first time in a year that she was aloud out with out him.
This horrified me.
This lady that I’d been so rude to in my head, was going through so much. Who was I to judge her having a fun time.
I must admit, I stared at her rather intently for a little bit as I thought about all of this, but as I did so, I started to notice that whenever her friends weren’t looking or talking to her, her face dropped and her eyes glazed over. You could see the pain in her face.
One of the lyrics of my favorite songs came to mind while this was all happening, and they go like this:
All those people going somewhere, why have I never cared?
Give me your eyes for just ones second,
Give me your eyes so I can see,
Everything that I keep missing,
Give me your love for humanity,
Give me your arms for the broken hearted,
Ones that are far beyond my reach,
Give me your heart for the ones forgotten,
Give me your eyes so I can see.
Just something to think about.